feat(backup)!: mandatory repo-name and databases-csv, --only-files, --only-sql

Two defaults could not be right. --repo-name fell back to the literal 'backup-docker-to-local' while its help promised the git repo folder name, which nothing ever derived. --databases-csv pointed inside the installed package directory, where credentials must not live; when it applied, load_databases_df read a missing file as empty and the run finished without a single dump and without an error. Both are required now, --repo-name in the restore CLI too. The file itself may still be absent - babadcb's tolerance is untouched, only the path must be named.

--everything is withdrawn. Its one effect was to ignore --images-no-stop-required, which is what leaving that list empty already does, and its branch was the default path minus the requires_stop check. No caller, no test, and help and README described it differently.

--dump-only-sql becomes --only-sql, and --only-files joins it as the opposite half: no dumps at all, every volume as files. They form a mutually exclusive group. A host that only copies files has no business holding database passwords, so --databases-csv is not required there and is never read.

The smallest valid argv turned out to be written four times across the test tree; it now lives once. Withdrawn flags are listed in one place and proven to exit 2.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

tests/unit/backup/test_compose_hard_restart.py

@@ -3,6 +3,8 @@ from __future__ import annotations
 import unittest
 from unittest.mock import patch
 
+from . import BASE_ARGV
+
 
 class HardRestartArgTests(unittest.TestCase):
     """The hard-restart list defaults to empty (no compose down/up); callers
@@ -16,11 +18,7 @@ class HardRestartArgTests(unittest.TestCase):
         from baudolo.backup import cli
 
         argv = [
-            "baudolo",
-            "--compose-dir",
-            "/tmp",
-            "--backups-dir",
-            "/tmp/backup",
+            *BASE_ARGV,
             "--database-containers",
             "postgres",
             "--images-no-stop-required",
@@ -42,23 +40,6 @@ class HardRestartArgTests(unittest.TestCase):
         args = self._parse(["--hard-restart-projects", "mailu", "foo"])
         self.assertEqual(args.hard_restart_projects, ["mailu", "foo"])
 
-    def test_backups_dir_is_required(self) -> None:
-        import sys
-
-        from baudolo.backup import cli
-
-        argv = [
-            "baudolo",
-            "--compose-dir",
-            "/tmp",
-            "--database-containers",
-            "postgres",
-            "--images-no-stop-required",
-            "redis",
-        ]
-        with patch.object(sys, "argv", argv), self.assertRaises(SystemExit):
-            cli.parse_args()
-
 
 if __name__ == "__main__":
     unittest.main(verbosity=2)